Reena Sommer Ph.D.'s

An Anatomy Of An Affair

14 Signs That A Spouse Is Cheating

According to Dr. Reena Sommer, Ph.D. there are always signs that a spouse is cheating. Her new e-Book, "Anatomy of an Affair" explains that most spouses who are cheated on believe that they had a perfectly good marriage until the other spouse went out and had the affair. However, a good many of these individuals later recognize that they probably missed some signals during the marriage warning them that something wasn't right.

Dr. Sommer states that spouses involved in a relationship outside of a marriage generally begin to distance themselves physically, emotionally and/or sexually from the marriage. The cheating spouse generally starts to shut down on his or her involvement with the other spouse. Less time is spent together and the opportunities for the spouses to be alone become fewer. Working longer hours provides an excellent way of avoiding private time with the other spouse.

Dr. Sommer's book, " Anatomy of an Affair" , lists the following 14 signs to consider if you suspect that your spouse may be having an affair:

1. A sudden change in routine and habits (i.e., leaving to and returning from work; starting or stopping activities, grooming and showering).
2. Sudden secretiveness (i.e., no longer shares information about routine or whereabouts).
3. A change in interests such as food, music, activities, fragrance or clothing.
4. A sudden interest in his/her own appearance (i.e., begins exercise program, loses weight, change in hairstyle, clothing)
5. A change in mood - either becoming more outgoing and happier or more reclusive and silent.
6. More secretive about money spending - credit card statements are no longer around or if found, there are a number of unexplained charges particularly to restaurants or hotels.
7. An increase in private phone calls particularly on cell phone.
8. Sudden increase in the number of "hang-up" calls on your residence telephone line.
9. Unknown telephone number repeatedly showing upon on spouse's cell phone "call display".
10. An increase in the amount of time being spent on the internet in a room with the door closed.
11. An unfamiliar fragrance scent is repeatedly found on spouse.
12. A sudden disinterest in sexual relations.
13. A sudden interest in taking vacations without you.
14. A sudden disinterest in making investments for the future.

Why Spouses Cheat/Who Is To Blame

I have spoken with Dr. Sommer and she has agreed to provide all visitors to my website with a condensed version of her e-book. If you click the link immediately below, an instant, free copy will appear on your computer.

"The Anatomy of an Affair" also provides help with the following topics:

• The 5 types of affairs are described.
• Is it possible to get beyond the affair?
• When the dust settles: How to move on with life?
• Reality checks for your present relationship
• Is your relationship worth saving?

Dr. Sommer's has made the entire "An Anatomy of an Affair" e-Book available for $37.00 ( U.S. ). If you click here you will receive the entire book via e-mail almost instantly.

As a bonus for purchasing "An Anatomy of an Affair" Dr. Sommer will give you a free 15 minute private telephone consultation. You may arrange for your confidential appointment by e-mailing Dr. Sommer at rsommer@shaw.ca

Dr. Reena Sommer, Ph.D.'s family practice is located in Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada. However, she is surprisingly accessible each and every day. She conducts a good portion of her individual and marital therapy sessions over the telephone. I know that she rarely fails to accept a new patient.

Dr. Sommer also offers "Flat Fee" unlimited telephone divorce counseling and coaching.

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